{"id":3684,"date":"2023-09-14T15:49:53","date_gmt":"2023-09-14T15:49:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/hirvojafarm.com\/?p=3684"},"modified":"2024-02-16T12:05:05","modified_gmt":"2024-02-16T12:05:05","slug":"tobias-positive-birth-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/hirvojafarm.com\/et\/tobiase-positiivne-sunnilugu\/kodu-ja-pere-eest-hoolitsemine\/","title":{"rendered":"Tobiase positiivne s\u00fcnnilugu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tobiase s\u00fcnnitus oli imeline! Tundsin kohe peale s\u00fcnnitust, et ma tahaksin seda k\u00f5ike veel l\u00e4bi teha - see oli nii ilus ja v\u00f5imas kogemus! Ka minu abikaasa Teodor, kes n\u00e4gi s\u00fcnnitust esimest korda, sest Nikolausi s\u00fcnni<\/a> juurde ta tulla ei saanud, \u00fctles vahetult peale seda, kui v\u00e4ike Tobias oli s\u00fcndinud: \"See polnud ju \u00fcldse nii hull\"... p\u00f5rnitsesin teda altkulmu, aga t\u00f5epoolest, tegelikult ei \u00f6elnud ta midagi valesti. Vaatamata vingetele valudele, oli see s\u00fcnnitus v\u00f5rratu!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Tobias<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Toobiake s\u00fcndis t\u00e4pselt \u00fcks n\u00e4dal enne t\u00e4htaega - 06.09.23. S\u00fcnnitus ei olnud ebatavaliselt kiire, kuid kestis siiski alla 4 tunni ja ma ei suutnud l\u00f5puni v\u00e4lja uskuda kui kiirelt aeg m\u00f6\u00f6dus. Esimese s\u00fcnnituse algusest ma aru ei saanud, sest mitu kuud aktiivselt k\u00e4inud libatuhud ajasid mind segadusse (loe Nikolausi s\u00fcnnilugu siit)<\/a>. Olin kindel, et j\u00e4rgmise s\u00fcnnituse alguse tunnen ma \u00e4ra, kuid sootukski mitte! Libatuhud k\u00e4isid igap\u00e4evaselt II trimestri algusest saadik ja mida l\u00e4hemale s\u00fcnnitust\u00e4htajale, seda usutavamaks nad muutusid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enne, kui alustad lugemist, tule ja hakka mind j\u00e4lgima Instagramis<\/a>, Facebookis<\/a>, ja Pinterestis<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e4ga ebaselge start<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Niisiis, s\u00fcgisemaigulise septembri hommikul, kolmap\u00e4eval kell 5.30 helises Teodoril \u00e4ratuskell - tal oli vaja t\u00f6\u00f6 asjus tavalisest varem \u00e4rgata. Mina olin juba veidi enne \u00e4ratuskella \u00e4rganud ja meenutasin endamisi voodis lebades, kas ma n\u00e4gin unes, et mul k\u00e4isid \u00f6\u00f6sel paar korda tuhud, v\u00f5i ma p\u00e4riselt \u00e4rkasin kokkut\u00f5mmete peale unest \u00fcles. Teodorile ma midagi ei \u00f6elnud, muudkui m\u00f5tisklesin endamisi ja j\u00e4lgisin, mis mu keha teeb. Ja peale seda, kui Teodor oli \u00e4ratuskella enda kombe kohaselt edasi l\u00fckanud, tuli \u00fcks tugevam valu. See ei olnud \u00fclem\u00e4\u00e4ra j\u00f5uline, kuid tekitas minus siiski ootamatult ebamugava tunde ja ma \u00e4gisesin omaette vaikselt. Teodor avas selle peale silmad ja uuris mis toimub ning ma \u00fctlesin, et ma ei ole p\u00e4ris kindel, kas tegu on valeh\u00e4irega v\u00f5i mitte ja \u00fctlesin, et peaksime olema valmis. Too p\u00e4ev oli s\u00fcnnitamise jaoks n\u00e4dala k\u00f5ige halvem p\u00e4ev, sest Teodor pidi olema erinevates t\u00f6\u00f6kohtades varahommikust alates ja j\u00f5udma koju alles hilis\u00f5htul, kui meie juba magame. Seet\u00f5ttu ma kohe ka k\u00fcsisin, et kui me n\u00fc\u00fcd s\u00fcnnitama hakkame, mis siis saab? Ega me kumbki ei teadnud, mis siis saab. M\u00f5ni minut hiljem tuli uus valu, ja siis paar minutit hiljem veel \u00fcks. Selle peale ajas Teodor ennast voodist v\u00e4lja ja hakkas kiirelt meile saatma, et omale asendusi leida (eelk\u00f5ige kooli, kus ta \u00f5petaja ja klassijuhatajana t\u00f6\u00f6tab), sest kuigi ma ei olnud ikka veel p\u00e4ris kindel, paistis asi ikkagi s\u00fcnnituse poole liikuvat. Ainus, mis tundus mulle v\u00e4ga veider oli see, et kokkut\u00f5mmete vahed olid kohe alguses v\u00e4ga l\u00fchikesed ja lisaks ka ebaregulaarsed ning osa valusid ei kestnud kuigi kaua, kohati vaid m\u00f5ni sekund. See meenutas v\u00e4ga seni k\u00e4inud Braxton Hicksi<\/a> kokkut\u00f5mbeid, ainsa vahega, et praegused kokkut\u00f5mbed olid v\u00f5rdlemisi valusad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viimased kodused toimingud<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Siiski ajasin ka mina end voodist v\u00e4lja ja hakkasin koristama. Olin juba paar n\u00e4dalat v\u00e4ga aktiivselt p\u00fc\u00fcdnud kodu koguaeg v\u00e4ga puhtana hoida, et juhuks, kui ma s\u00fcnnituse alguses enam koristada ei j\u00f5ua, siis ma ei peaks s\u00fcnnitusmajast naastes kohe esimese asjana koristama hakkama. Aga loomulikult just eelmine \u00f5htu, kui issi j\u00e4lle pikalt t\u00f6\u00f6d tegi, oli meie alla kaheaastane esiklaps eriti veidras tujus ja suutis kogu elamise nii sassi p\u00f6\u00f6rata, et mina enam tol \u00f5htul koristada ei suutnud. Nii ma siis p\u00fc\u00fcdsin oma veidrate kokkut\u00f5mmetega hommikul koristada. Iga kord, kui ma sammu astusin, tuli kokkut\u00f5mme, iga kord kui kummardasin ja midagi maast \u00fcles t\u00f5stsin, tuli kokkut\u00f5mme. Ja need ei olnud kerged krambid k\u00f5hus, vaid intensiivsed valud, mis vajasid \u00fclehingamist. V\u00e4ike hirm hakkas mu keha \u00fcle v\u00f5imust v\u00f5tma ja ma teatasin Teodorile, et ma tahan haiglasse s\u00f5ita. Teodor oli h\u00e4mmingus ja \u00fctles v\u00e4ga arutlevalt, et j\u00e4rsku ma praegu olen lihtsalt endast v\u00e4ljas. Sest ta teadis, et ma ei tahaks kindlasti liiga vara haiglasse minna. Ma \u00fchmasin midagi pooleldi omaette ja komberdasin edasi koristada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otsin sobivat r\u00fctmi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Umbes poole tunni jooksul ma m\u00f5istsin, et ma ei suuda enam liikuda ja pidin hakkama sobivat asendit otsima, et valusid \u00fcle hingata. P\u00fc\u00fcdsin meenutada, kuidas mul Nikolausi s\u00fcnnitades k\u00f5ige parem oli, aga mitte ei tulnud meelde. Proovisin siis k\u00fclili, p\u00fcsti ja p\u00f5lvili, ning l\u00f5puks l\u00e4ksin k\u00e4puli. Ja sellest hetkest alates ma ka k\u00e4puli j\u00e4in - j\u00e4rgmised kolm tundi. Valud olid t\u00f5eliselt intensiivsed ja ma olin tegelikult t\u00e4itsa paanikal\u00e4vel. See k\u00f5ik algas nii ootamatult, valud olid t\u00e4iesti ebaregulaarsed, v\u00e4ga l\u00fchikesed, samas kohati ei olnud kahe valu vahel paus pikem kui vaid m\u00f5ni sekund. Kui ma ennast liiga j\u00e4rsult liigutasin, v\u00f5i astusin, tuli kohe uus kokkut\u00f5mme. Lasin s\u00fcnnitegevuse enda kontrolli alt v\u00e4lja ja \u00fctlesin Teodorile, kes ikka veel nina arvutis asendusi otsis, et ma ei saa hakkama, mul on liiga valus ja ma ei taha s\u00fcnnitada. Teodor vaatas mulle silma ja \u00fctles, et ma ei pea sellega \u00fcksi hakkama saama, sest s\u00fcnnituse ajal tulevad hormoonid, mis mind aitavad ja toetavad. See andis mulle puuduoleva j\u00f5u ja sel hetkel ma m\u00f5istsin, et n\u00fc\u00fcd on nali l\u00e4bi ja ma pean ennast kokku v\u00f5tma. Iga kord, kui kokkut\u00f5mme tuli, hingasin rahulikult nina kaudu sisse ja \u00f5rnalt suud \"puristades\" v\u00e4lja ja p\u00fc\u00fcdsin m\u00f5elda n\u00e4olihaste l\u00f5dvenemisele. M\u00f5nda aega hingasingi nii, aga millegip\u00e4rast tegi see issile ja \u00e4sja \u00e4rganud Nikolausile hirmsasti nalja ja ma m\u00f5tlesin, et proovin parem midagi muud. Edasi hingasin iga valu korral tasakesi neli sekundit sisse ja kuus sekundit v\u00e4lja. See toimis t\u00f5esti h\u00e4sti ja nii hingasin ma kuni pressid algasid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Kaks<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Alustame haigla poole s\u00f5itu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Kell oli saanud umbes 7 hommikul ja kui ma olin viimaks veendunud, et ma p\u00e4riselt s\u00fcnnitan, helistasin ma enda s\u00f5brannale, kellega meil oli eelnevalt kokkulepitud, et Nikolaus l\u00e4heb s\u00fcnnitamise ajaks tema juurde. \u00dctlesin talle, et ma ei ole p\u00e4ris kindel, mis tempos mu s\u00fcnnitus liigub, sest tuhudel ei ole vahesid olnud algusest peale ja ma ei saa t\u00e4pselt aru, mis toimub, kuid me t\u00f5en\u00e4oliselt stardime kohe haigla poole. Haiglakott oli juba \u00f5nneks koos, kuid Nikolausile ma enam asju kaasa pakkida ei suutnud, sest koguaeg k\u00e4isid kokkut\u00f5mbed. Issi suutis vaevu lapsele p\u00fcksid jalga leida ja nii me ta kodust \u00e4ra saatsime - toitmata ja katmata. Vahetult peale seda hakkasime ka ise haigla poole liikuma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esikust autoni on vaid m\u00f5nik\u00fcmmend meetrit minna, aga vaatamata sellele, oli mul teel autosse neli v\u00e4ga intensiivset kokkut\u00f5mmet. Kui ma uksest v\u00e4lja astudes j\u00e4rjekordse valuhoo t\u00f5ttu p\u00f5randale k\u00e4puli vajusin ja s\u00f5naotseses m\u00f5ttes keset l\u00e4vepakku maas k\u00fc\u00fcrutasin, seisis Teodor mu ees ja \u00fctles: \"Ma tunnen ennast nii t\u00e4htsana, et sa praegu minu ees kummardad.\" Mul oli nii valus, et ma ei suutnud ei nutta ega naerda ja ma \u00fctlesin talle v\u00f5imalikult l\u00fchidalt ja veendunult: \"Mine minema\". Teodor vastas selle peale: \"Keegi on oma huumorisoone \u00e4ra kaotanud.\" Valu sai l\u00e4bi ja ma palusin Teodoril auto nii l\u00e4hedale ajada kui v\u00f5imalik, sest ma m\u00f5istsin, et k\u00f5ndimine tekitab mulle kokkut\u00f5mbeid aina juurde ja ma ei saa kaugele liikuda. Ise hakkasin vaikselt auto poole komberdama. \u00dctlesin veel Teodorile tema eelmise halvasti \u00f5nnestunud nalja j\u00e4tkuks, et ta v\u00f5ib nalja teha sel ajal, kui mul kokkut\u00f5mmet ei ole, aga kui ma pean valu \u00fcle hingama, siis mul naljatuju ei ole. Enne autosse istumist pidin auto najal veel kaks valu \u00fcle hingama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Autos s\u00f5itsin nii, et ma olin p\u00f5lvili tagumisel istmel ja k\u00e4te ning peaga toetusin esiistmele - see oli halvimast parim variant, k\u00fcll mitte paraku seadusekuulekas. S\u00f5it haiglasse oli kohutav. S\u00f5itsime umbes paark\u00fcmmend minutit ja ma arvan, et selle aja sees oli mul 10-15 kokkut\u00f5mmet, seega sisuliselt kogu aja. Teodor s\u00f5itis imeliselt ja delikaatselt ning p\u00fc\u00fcdis v\u00e4ltida ka k\u00f5ige v\u00e4iksemat pidurdust, kuid sellele vaatamata m\u00f5jus auto kergeimgi rappumine valuhoo ajal laastavalt. Autos\u00f5idu algusest alates ma rohkem \"niisama\" juttu ei r\u00e4\u00e4kinud ja hingasin lakkamatult 4 sekundit sisse ja 6 sekundit v\u00e4lja, pause ei teinud ja viisin ennast v\u00e4ga keskendunud ja endasse hoidvasse seisundisse. Vaid igal korral, kui tuli valu, \u00fctlesin Teodorile \"valu\", siis ta teadis, et tuleb eriti ettevaatlikult s\u00f5ita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00f5udsime haiglasse<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Haiglasse j\u00f5udes parkis Teodor auto t\u00e4iesti ukseauku ja nii kaua kui ta turvamehega hommikuseid tervitusi vahetas, pidin mina veel \u00fche valu autos \u00fcle hingama. Haiglasse sisenesin ma s\u00f5na otseses m\u00f5ttes Teodori k\u00fcljes rippudes ja jalgu vaevu j\u00e4rel lohistades, mul ei olnud mingitki j\u00f5udu enam alles j\u00e4\u00e4nud. Kell oli vahepeal saanud juba 8.14, nii oli mu haigla k\u00e4epaelal kirjas. Kui ruumi sisenesime, tegi registratuurit\u00e4di k\u00f5ik endast oleneva, et mind v\u00f5imalikult ruttu \u00e4mmaemanda juurde kontrolli saata ja ma ei peaks pikalt kannatama. Kui ma l\u00e4bivaatusruumi astusin, \u00fctles \u00e4mmaemand mind n\u00e4hes s\u00f5bralikult: \"Ah sa oled omadega juba sealmaal.\" Enne l\u00e4bivaatust pidin veel \u00fche valu \u00fcle hingama ning peale seda sain teada, et emakakaela avatust oli juba 7-8 cm. Ma olin v\u00e4ga \u00fcllatunud, et see k\u00f5ik on nii kiirelt kulgenud ja tegelikult tundsin suurt kergenudst, sest ma hakkasin vaikselt aru saama, kuidas mu s\u00fcnnitus kulgeb, mis intensiivsusega on valud ja kuidas neid \u00fcle hingata. Kuidagi ma suutsin viibida seal s\u00fcgavas s\u00fcnnitusseisundis ja olla nendest meeletult v\u00f5imsatest valudest tugevam ja k\u00f5ik hiirvaikselt \u00fcle hingata. \u00c4mmaemand oli korraks lausa segaduses ja k\u00fcsis kas mul on praegu kokkut\u00f5mme v\u00f5i ei, kuna v\u00e4liselt kokkut\u00f5mmete ajal minus midagi ei muutunud. Nikolausi s\u00fcnnitades <\/a> mul valude \u00fcle sellist kontrolli ei olnud ja see oli t\u00e4iesti kohutav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u00fcnnitustuppa nagu filmis<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Hakkasime l\u00e4bivaatusruumis KTG-d tegema ja \u00e4mmaemand \u00fctles, et ma \u00fctleksin talle, kui mul pressid algavad. M\u00f5tlesin enda peas, et mis pressid... ma ju alles alustasin. Aga t\u00f5epoolest - vaid m\u00f5ni minut hiljem tuli esimene pressitunne ja ma \u00e4gasin l\u00e4bi valu \u00f6elda \"press\". \u00c4mmaemand kargas p\u00fcsti ja edasi \"l\u00e4ks k\u00e4ima\" Hollywoodi telesari. Ta helistas teisele \u00e4mmaemandale ja k\u00e4skis kiiruga voodi tuua. Ootamise ajal aitas ta mul \u00fclikiirelt riided vahetada. Kui ma olin teise voodi peale \u00fcmber liikunud, jooksid \u00e4mmaemandad voodiga kuhugi kaugemasse haiglaosasse s\u00fcnnitusosakonda. Voodi rappus k\u00fcll meeletult, aga ma olin nii s\u00fcgavas transilaadses seisundis, et ma vaevu tajusin, mis mu \u00fcmber toimub. Silmanurgast n\u00e4gin Teodorit kannul p\u00fcsimas, kuigi tema peale ma enam \u00fcldse ei m\u00f5elnud. J\u00e4rsku olime juba s\u00fcnnitustoas ja ma pidin uuesti teise voodi peale minema. Seal oli mul veel m\u00f5ni \u00fcksik tavaline kokkut\u00f5mme enne p\u00e4ris presside algust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Vasts\u00fcndinu<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

V\u00f5iduka l\u00f5puni<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tobiase s\u00fcnnituse v\u00f5tsid vastu kaks \u00e4mmaemandat, sest \u00fcks oli praktikant - m\u00f5lemad olid v\u00e4ga s\u00f5bralikud ja lahked. Mulle tundus, et k\u00f5ik ruumis olevad inimesed seisid minust eemal ja j\u00e4lgisid protsessi, keegi mind ei seganud, ei andnud ebavajaliku n\u00f5u v\u00f5i muul viisil ei t\u00fclitanud. Vahepeal k\u00fcsisin ma ise \u00fcht-teist, kuid \u00fcldiselt oli see s\u00fcnnitus k\u00f5ik minu kanda ja ma ei suhelnud pikalt kellegagi. \u00c4mmaemand \u00fchel hetkel k\u00fcsis, kas ma ei tahaks \u00e4kki asnedit vahetada, olin olnud varahommikust saadik pea vahet pidamata k\u00e4puli. \u00dctlesin, et ma olen t\u00f5esti v\u00e4sinud, kuid ma kardan, et m\u00f5ni teine asend on kehvem. Siiski, mulle meenus, et mu s\u00f5branna on kaks last s\u00fcnnitanud k\u00fclili ja otsustasin, et proovin ka. See oli v\u00e4ga hea otsus, k\u00fclili olin ma kogu presside aja ja nii s\u00fcndis ka beebi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kui pressid korralikult algasid, muutus s\u00fcnnituse iseloom t\u00e4ielikult. Enda s\u00fcgavast transseisundist paiskusin ma vuhinal v\u00e4lja ja iga pressiga pidin aina valjemini v\u00e4lja hingama. Endamisi naeran, et beebi ei s\u00fcndinud mitte pressides, vaid hoopis kiljudes, sest l\u00f5pp tuli t\u00f5esti vaid \"aurude\" pealt ja pressida ma eriti ei jaksanudki. K\u00fcsisin \u00e4mmaemandalt kohe alguses luba, kas ma tohin ise enda kehaga f\u00fc\u00fcsiliselt mitte kaasa pressida ja lihtsalt lasta oma kehal tegutseda ning ta lubas. Umbes paark\u00fcmmend minutit enne lapse s\u00fcndi hakkasin samm-sammult siiski ise j\u00f5uga ka kaasa aitama. Lootekott ei olnud ikka veel katki l\u00e4inud ja \u00e4mmaemand arvas, et kui see l\u00e4heb katki, siis tuleb kohe ka laps v\u00e4lja. Ma iga pressiga ootasin nii v\u00e4ga lootekoti purunemist, kuid katki ta minna ei tahtnud. L\u00f5puks \u00fcks \u00e4mmaemand s\u00f5rmeotsaga pehmelt puudutas kotti ja lootekott plahvatas nii, et pool tuba lendas s\u00f5na otseses m\u00f5ttes vett t\u00e4is. See tekitas korraks elevust ja muigeid. 15 minutit peale seda tuli ka tita - pidin p\u00e4ris palju j\u00f5udu kasutama, et ta v\u00e4lja tuleks. Omasin enda keha \u00fcle kontrolli ja tundsin v\u00e4ga h\u00e4sti, kuidas pea liikus ja kehast tasapisi v\u00e4ljus. K\u00fcsisin veel \u00fcle, et kas pea juba liigub ja k\u00f5ik ruumis olevad inimesed kinnitasid v\u00e4ga kaasaelavalt, et asi on l\u00f5pusrigel. Vaatasin Teodori poole ja temagi noogutas kaasa, ise n\u00e4ost pisut kaame. Tegelikult seisis Teoodor kogu s\u00fcnnituse \u00fche koha peal ja j\u00e4lgis eemalt, mis toimub. Mul oli tast suisa kahju ja ma \u00fctlesin talle, et ta \u00e4rgu minu p\u00e4rast seal kannatagu ja minu poolest v\u00f5ib ta ruumist lahkuda, kui tal on \u00e4kki ebameeldiv v\u00f5i kasv\u00f5i kui ta on lihtsalt v\u00e4sinud. Ta otsustas v\u00e4ga kindlameelselt j\u00e4\u00e4da ja palus, et ma tema p\u00e4rast ei muretseks. Mingi hetk, pisut enne tita s\u00fcndi tuli ta mu juurde ja pakkus mulle vett juua, mis oli v\u00e4ga t\u00e4nuv\u00e4\u00e4rne. Rohkem ta ei sekkunud ja see oli parim mis ta teha sai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kell 9.18, vaid tund aega peale haiglasse j\u00f5udmist, s\u00fcndis beebipoiss \u00e4ra ja see oli nii v\u00f5imas tunne, kui ma n\u00e4gin, kuidas laps mu ihust v\u00e4lja t\u00f5steti ja mulle rinnale anti. \u00dchtlasi loomulikult ka suur kergendus, sest ma sain l\u00f5puks puhata. Presside l\u00f5pus hakkasin ma liiga j\u00f5uliselt suruma - tunnistan - ma tahtsin, et see l\u00f5peks ja l\u00e4ksin ehk pisut hasartigi ning selle p\u00e4rast sain m\u00f5ned kergemad rebendid. Kokkuv\u00f5tvalt siiski oli s\u00fcnnitus v\u00e4ga edukas ja juba veidi aega peale seda ma m\u00f5tlesin, et k\u00fcll tahaks juba uuesti s\u00fcnnitada, see on lihtsalt nii v\u00f5imas elamus!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tobias’ labor was wonderful! Right after giving birth, I felt that I would want to go through it all again – it was such a beautiful and powerful experience! 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